Don't complain, Give Thanks!

Have you ever been so exhausted that you can’t even think straight? I definitely have. For the past three weeks, I’ve been training for a new job that’s physically demanding, and my body has been feeling it, big time. I’ve been so tired that I haven’t had the energy or mental clarity to post anything on my social media.

A few people have reached out, wondering where I’ve been. The answer? Working hard, of course.

The truth is, I asked God for this exact opportunity. And even though it’s been tough physically and mentally I’m incredibly grateful. It’s a blessing, and I’m embracing the challenge.

I’ll never understand people who ask for something and then complain once they get it. Why even ask if you’re not ready to receive it in full?

The other day, I was at an appointment and overheard someone complaining about a promotion they had just received. It sounded like they wanted the extra money, but not the added responsibility that came with it. And that’s exactly why I always say: be careful what you ask for. Sometimes, we don’t fully understand what we’re really signing up for.

It’s like desperately wanting a child, and then once you have one, resenting the demands that come with parenthood. If that’s your mindset, was it ever truly what you wanted or just an idea of what you thought you should want?

For example, I’ve been single for a long time. There was a period in my life when I really wanted to be in a relationship, and I still do. But then I had to take a step back and ask myself: Is this something I truly want, or is it just something I feel I should have because the world says that’s what’s supposed to happen?

When God eventually blesses me with someone, will I be ready to receive them? Am I willing to make the necessary changes, sacrifices, and adjustments that a real, lasting relationship requires? I say yes.

These are the kinds of questions we must ask ourselves before we ask for something big.

All I’m saying is this: before you start asking or praying for something, or someone, make sure you’ve done the inner work first. Otherwise, you might end up complaining about the very thing you once asked for. Excessive complaining can lead you down a path of destruction and despair. It feeds negative thought patterns, elevates stress, and keeps you stuck in a cycle that robs you of peace and perspective.

When you feel like complaining, pause and give thanks instead. Shift your focus to the good in your life and recognize how truly blessed you are. Because the truth is, what’s given can be taken away just as quickly. Gratitude keeps you grounded and complaining only clouds your vision. I pray you stay grounded!

Sending you love, light and positive vibes,

Cassie K.

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"Always remember to LIVE life to the fullest, to LAUGH at everything and to LOVE unconditionally!